It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Mary Peterson Rella, 52, of Toms River, a beloved third-grade teacher, loving wife, and cherished friend, who touched the lives of many with her warmth, dedication, and infectious laugh.

Mary departed this world on January 17, 2024, leaving behind a legacy of inspiration and kindness.

Mary is predeceased by her mother, Evelyn Doss, her father James Peterson, her step father Runyon (Junior) Doss, her brother, Robert Pucci Jr.

Mary is survived by her loving husband Dr. Jan Rella, her sister, Kim Karecky, her two beloved dogs, Cody & Cooper and numerous nieces and nephews.

Mary was born in Passaic, NJ and raised in Toms River, NJ. Mary was educated in the Toms River School System and graduated from Toms River High School South. Mary will always be a proud TR South Indian.

Mary graduated from Monmouth University with a dual Bachelor of Arts degree in Elementary Education and Psychology.

Mary's journey in education spanned over twenty years. Her commitment to fostering a love for learning in her students was unparalleled. Mary had a unique ability to make even the most challenging subjects engaging and enjoyable, creating an environment where curiosity flourished.

Beyond her exemplary teaching skills, Mary was cherished for her compassionate and nurturing nature. She had a special way of connecting with each student, recognizing their individual strengths and encouraging them to reach their full potential.

Many of her former students fondly recall the impact she had on their lives, instilling not just knowledge but also a sense of confidence and resilience.

In addition to her professional achievements, Mary was a devoted and loving wife of 29 years to Dr. Jan Rella. Their partnership was a source of strength, love, and support.

Mary's impact also reached far beyond her family, as she was a cherished friend to many. Mary was a fierce protector of her friends, a trusted advisor, and someone who could be counted on to listen.

Her unwavering support and genuine kindness touched the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know her.

As we mourn the loss of Mary, let us also celebrate the incredible impact she had on the lives of so many. Her spirit will forever remain alive in the hearts of those who had the privilege of knowing her.

A Memorial Visitation will be held on Sunday, January 21, from 2 pm to 5 pm at Anderson and Campbell Funeral Home, 703 Main Street, Toms River.

A Funeral Mass will be held on Monday, January 22 at 10:00 am at St. Joseph’s Church, 685 Hooper Ave., Toms River. Cremation will be private.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Ronald McDonald House in Mary's memory.

May she rest in eternal peace.